Parenting dimensions
Harsh treatment
(hostility, criticality, rejection) and lack of clear, firm discipline or
supervision together, and in interaction with other variables, are often
especially predictive and at times capable of differentiating various
developmental psychopathological outcomes. Countless studies have underscored
the predictive power of harsh treatment or rejection, with findings especially
consistent for externalizing problems in boys. Rejections, lack of support and
hostility have also been consistently related to depression. Feldman and
Weinberger found that parental rejection and power assertive discipline
predicted delinquent behaviour of sixth-grade boys 4 years later. Ge, Best,
Conger and Simons found that parental hostility predicted 10th graders'
behaviour problems, even after controlling for 7th-grade symptom levels, and
distinguished between those with conduct disorders and those with depression.
Using a behaviour genetic design, Reiss found that the specific level of
parental negativity directed to one member of a sibling pair predicted that
child's level of conduct problems, thus showing this effect above and beyond
any genetic contribution. Likewise, Patterson and Dishion reported that aggressive
treatment of children was more predictive of conduct problems than parent trait
measures of aggressiveness (a genetic surrogate). Sroufe also found that low
parental warmth predicted childhood depression, even after controlling for
maternal depression. Many of the studies cited here also demonstrated the
impact of inconsistent discipline and the degree of parental monitoring has
been the most powerful variables.
Interpersonal conflict
Divorce, parental
disharmony, and family violence all have been consistently associated with
child behavioural and emotional problems. Across eight studies reviewed, Amato
and Keith found that children from high-conflict, intact families showed more
problems (including depression and anxiety) than children from divorced
families in general. Family violence has also been found to be associated with
childhood pathology. The adults exposed to interparental violence during
childhood had a higher risk of psychosocial maladjustment such as depression,
conjugal violence, child maltreatment and alcohol dependence. In their study of
the link between commonly occurring ACEs and teen dating violence Miller and
co-authors, having adjusted for the number of co-occurring adversities, found
out that 10 of the 12 childhood adversities were significantly associated with
partner dating violence perpetration or victimisation. Edwards reported a
dose-response relation between the number of types of maltreatment reported and
mental health scores. Both an emotionally abusive family environment and the
interaction of an emotionally abusive family environment with the various
maltreatment types had a significant effect on mental health scores of the
subjects [35-37].
Child maltreatment
The substantial
literature on child maltreatment confirms the role of parental hostility and
harshness outlined earlier. Prospective studies show that maltreatment
(including physical abuse and emotional unavailability) is associated with
conduct problems, disruptive behaviour disorders, attention problems, anxiety
disorders (including PTSD and mood disorders. Sexual abuse, the extreme of
boundary violation, appears to be especially pathogenic, being related to a
variety of problems. Even in comparison to other maltreatment groups, those who
are sexually abused manifest more forms of psychopathology and more extreme
psychopathology. Afifi have found that harsh physical punishment was associated
with increased odds of mood disorders, anxiety disorders, alcohol and drug
abuse/ dependence, and several personality disorders after adjusting for
socio-demographic variables and family history of dysfunction. From their
research in Nigeria Oladeji, Makanjuola and Gureje concluded that adverse
childhood experiences reflecting violence in the family, parental criminality
and parental mental illness and substance misuse were more likely to have
significant mental health consequences in adulthood. Hills, Anda and their
associates (2004) found strong and graded relationships between Adverse
Childhood Experiences (ACEs; emotional, physical, or sexual abuse; exposure to
domestic violence, substance abusing, mentally ill, or criminal household
member; or separated/divorced parent) and adolescent pregnancy. Moreover, they
concluded that the negative psychosocial sequelae and fetal deaths commonly
attributed to adolescent pregnancy seem to result from underlying ACEs rather than
adolescent pregnancy per se. In their study of the association between sets of ACEs( such as Childhood Abuse,
Neglect, and Household Dysfunction) Dube found that each ACE increased the
likelihood for early initiation of illicit drug use by 2- to 4-fold; the ACE
score had a strong graded relationship to initiation of drug use in all 3 age
categories ( less than 14 years, 15 to 18 years, or as adults of 19 years &
older) as well as to drug use problems, drug addiction, and parental drug use.
Peer Relationships as Risk Factors for
Maladaptive Development and Maladjustment
Ample research shows that
poor peer relationships and association with deviant peers themselves are risk
factors for psychopathology. Numerous studies have found that general problems
with peers, lack of social competence, or unpopularity (based on observation,
teacher ratings, or peer sociometrics) are related to later behavioural and
emotional problems. Numerous studies have documented a relation between a
history of peer rejection and later maladjustment, both externalizing and
internalizing problems, sometimes even with earlier behaviour problems
controlled. Broll, Crooks and their associates note that today youth’s lives
have become increasingly infused with all types of media. The same holds true
for children. Globalization and current revolution in cyber technology have
fuelled the infusion already there. Although research on the effects of children
and youth’s use of media is not conclusive yet, growing evidence shows that
improper and overuse of media affects children and youth negatively in many
ways. This in turn necessitates parents’ monitoring children and youth media
use. Parental monitoring of children and youth media use has been identified as
an important protective factor against some negative outcomes that might have
resulted from improper media usage [38-41].
The Interplay between family
and peer relationships
Family and peer relationships
also tend to influence an individual‘s overall development and behavioural
functioning, or malfunctioning, not only independently but also jointly. For
example, Patterson and associates' work specifically points to the mediating
role for peer experiences in the perpetuation of conduct problems. In their
model, poor parental discipline and monitoring lead to conduct problems, which
in turn are associated with peer rejection and academic failure. These factors
converge to promote commitment to a deviant peer group, leading to
consolidation of antisocial behaviour. Problem behaviours and peer competence
during childhood and adolescence are best viewed as drawing upon the
convergence of previous family and peer experiences. The case in point is that
concurrence in previous family and peer experiences determine an individual’s
current and future behavioral functioning. An individual’s poor functioning or
maladaptive developmental outcome is more likely to be the consequence of the
convergence between negative family and peer relationship experiences.
Convergence of prior positive experiences is also likely to lead positive
developmental outcome and that of adverse experiences is likely negative one.
In short, family and peer experiences operate together toward a common
developmental outcome when they are convergent and they operate against each
other (the effect of former buffers the effect of the latter and vice-versa)
when they are divergent.
Implications
It is often claimed that
‘children and youth are a nation’s future generation’ and the fate of a given
nation is dependent on how the nation nurtures its children and youth today.
Healthy development of children and youth provides a strong foundation for
healthy and competent adulthood, responsible citizenship, economic
productivity, strong communities, and a sustainable society. As has been
highlighted in previous sections, healthy youth and child development is by and
large contingent on the quality of the contexts in which they grow up. That is, children and youth develop healthily
when the family, peer networks, school, and the neighborhood and community in
which they grow up are free from adversities and toxics and are child- and youth friendly. Family and peers
are pivotal in that both exert first-hand and long-lasting influence on
persons’ overall development across the lifespan. Based on evidences that have
been reviewed in this paper, the author would like to draw the attentions of
all stakeholders of children and the youth in this nation to the points
outlined next.
·
Children
and youth develop well in families where parents are warm, responsive,
consistent, caring and accepting. Biological parenthood does not necessarily
confer the desire or ability be warm, responsive, consistent, caring and accepting
and to care for a child or youth adequately. In other words, parents are not
born with all the desirable parenting qualities such as being warm, responsive,
accepting, and consistent. Furthermore, deep rooted socio-cultural beliefs
about children and their development may misinform parents and prevent them
from exercising good parenting. Therefore, there should be access to parenting
education and training programs aimed at promoting parenting knowledge and
skills. This does not necessarily mean that parents need to undertake
structured training courses in parenting. Rather, issues pertaining to child
care and development and parenting can be integrated into agricultural and
health extension programs. Public media can also be used to reach parents in
this regard. Adult education curricula can be a valuable platform for this
purpose. In line with this, Broll, Crooks, Burns, Hughes, and Jaffe (2013)
conclude that even short, one-time intensive workshops for parents can move
parents’ behaviours in the intended direction and positively impact their
monitoring strategies of their children and youth.
·
Harsh
treatment (hostility, criticality, rejection) and lack of clear, firm
discipline or supervision together, and in interaction with other variables,
are often especially predictive and at times capable of differentiating various
developmental psychopathological outcomes. Divorce, parental disharmony, and
family violence all have been consistently associated with child behavioural
and emotional problems. Prospective studies show that child maltreatment
(including physical abuse and emotional unavailability) is associated with
conduct problems, disruptive behaviour disorders, attention problems, anxiety
disorders (including PTSD and mood disorders. Therefore, families need to be
free from such adversities if healthy child and youth development is really desired.
This in turn requires viable family, child, and youth development and welfare
policies and legal instruments to help with the implementation of the policies.
·
Functional
family is an asset for a child’s overall healthy development across the lifespan.
Attachment security also is associated with recovery from behavioural problems
and is a protective factor with regard to family life stress; that is, children
with histories of secure attachment show fewer problems in the face of family
stress than do children with histories of anxious attachment; they do not fall
prey easily to the ill effects of adverse situations they encounter in life
across the lifespan. Therefore, best practices pertaining to parenting and
family functioning should be spelled out, scaled up and promoted.
·
Ample
research shows that poor peer relationships and association with deviant peers
themselves are risk factors for psychopathology. On the other hand, good peer
relations and associations with better achieving peers protect children and
youth against maladaptive behavioural development. Furthermore, family and peer
relationships also tend to influence an individual‘s overall development and
behavioural functioning, or malfunctioning, not only independently but also
jointly. These points signal the essence of parents’ monitoring and supervision
of their children and youth’s peer interactions and media use. In other words,
parents need to make developmentally appropriate monitoring of their
off-springs’ peer interaction.